we are all temporary beings. and, in the end, we all deserve a companion who knows us and our loved ones deeply, advocates for our wishes, and brings us comfort. these truths are the heart of my offering to you.
definition: end-of-life doula
a well-prepared fellow traveler who is unafraid to journey alongside people and pets through the wilderness of dying, death, and grief.
Meet Your Doula
My name is Kelley Iris (she/her) and I am a trained end-of-life doula based in Richmond, Virginia.
I offer emotional and practical support services to people and pets who will one day die (in other words, everyone), and to loved ones and caregivers, to ease the dying process for all.
how will a death doula support you?
our shared values
My practice is trauma-informed and emphasizes consent and bodily autonomy, including after death. I approach my services without a religious, political, or cultural agenda - my client’s beliefs and desires lead the way - except I will refuse service to anyone who displays bigotry or abuse of any kind.
I am a proud member of the LGBTQIA+ community and a fervent advocate for our community’s rights and protections, including at the end of our lives. I prioritize providing services to community members and our allies, as many LGBTQIA+ folks are under-served and experience discrimination during the final stages of life or when seeking care for loved ones. To work well together, it is essential that we share a commitment to caring for the LGBTQIA+ community.
contact me
If you are interested in hiring me or have any questions, share your details in the form on this page or send an email to kelleyiris.doula@gmail.com. Please do not include any medical or other sensitive personal information in your message.
I look forward to connecting with you soon!